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Are You Loving Them or Needing Them?

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Are You Loving Them or Needing Them?

Real love is a mind that wants others to be happy — full stop. It values them, respects them, and just wants them to be happy. No conditions.

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16:35 · September 21, 2026 Gen Devi

Loving kindness Relationships

Gen Devi

Gen Devi follows what happens once the fantasy fades — the honeymoon ends, we feel the person has changed, and we blame them for no longer matching our projection. She shows the way out: removing attachment rather than abandoning the people we love, taking responsibility for our own mind, and switching our focus from ourselves to others as the true source of lasting happiness.

Further reading in the following book:
How to Transform Your Life

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