In today's episode, Gen Kelsang Ch\u00f6kyong – a Buddhist monk from Wales – shares the story of how he stumbled into a Dharma class while sheltering from the rain with a kebab, and never left. Drawing on nearly thirty years of practice and teaching within the New Kadampa Tradition, he explores why the mind – not external circumstances – is the true source of all our happiness and suffering. He explains the Buddhist concept of self-grasping ignorance and how this single delusion drives everything from daily irritation and relationship problems to the world's largest conflicts. <\/p>\n
Gen Ch\u00f6kyong highlights how meditation and compassion gradually erode this grasping, revealing a natural peace that was always there. He shares life-changing insights into the nature of feelings – pointing out that most of what torments us is just a feeling, and feelings always pass. He concludes with a very helpful approach to making mistakes. Instead of turning on ourself, we can realize that without making mistakes it\u2019s unlikely that we\u2019ll learn and improve. Warm, funny, and deeply practical, this episode is a masterclass in how Buddhist wisdom applies directly to modern anxiety, relationships, and the art of letting go.<\/p>\n
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Chapters<\/strong><\/p>\n 00:00 Introduction and Finding Dharma <\/p>\n 05:00 Seeing Through the Fantasy of Worldly Life <\/p>\n 09:20 How the Mind Creates Its Own Suffering <\/p>\n 15:00 Buddhism's Relevance for Modern Life and Young People <\/p>\n 22:40 Confidence, Self-Image, and Letting Go of Comparison <\/p>\n 27:20 Working with Difficulties <\/p>\n 28:45 Feelings and the Power of Letting Go <\/p>\n 33:55 Compassion and Learning from Mistakes<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Book References<\/strong><\/p>\n In this episode Gen Ch\u00f6kyong references:<\/p>\n \u2028How to Solve our Human Problems\u2028<\/em> – https:\/\/kadampa.org\/book\/how-to-solve-our-human-problems<\/p>\n How to Transform Your Life<\/em>\u2028 – https:\/\/howtotyl.com\/<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Gen Ch\u00f6kyong is a senior teacher within the New Kadampa Tradition, an international Buddhist tradition with over a thousand meditation centers worldwide.\u2028\u2028<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n WANT MORE?<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Find a meditation center near you\u2028:<\/p>\n https:\/\/kadampa.org\/nkt-center-search\/?lang=en<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Listen to teaching clips\u2028:<\/p>\n Spotify: https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/5QPCFEyZz74nOHZbQr1B4z<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Subscribe to get notifications of new episodes.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Follow the Modern Buddhism Podcast:<\/p>\n Spotify: https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/7lgQNhbjMGoHOxBnjkfmK4\u2028<\/p>\n <\/p>\n #KadampaBuddhism #Buddhism #Meditation #InnerPeace #MindTraining #GesheKelsangGyatso #NewKadampaTradition #BuddhistTeachings #Mindfulness #LetGo #SelfGrasping #Compassion #Patience #HappinessWithin #BuddhistPodcast<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"In today's episode, Gen Kelsang Ch\u00f6kyong – a Buddhist monk from Wales – shares the story of how he stumbled into a Dharma class while sheltering from the rain with a kebab, and never left. Drawing on nearly thirty years of practice and teaching within the New Kadampa Tradition, he explores why the mind – ... Lire plus<\/a>","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":770257,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"sync_status":"none","episode_type":"audio","audio_file":"https:\/\/anchor.fm\/s\/fbd61f2c\/podcast\/play\/119726783\/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-4-9%2F243ae5b8-579e-123d-b65c-3e62533537a9.mp3","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","castos_file_data":"","cover_image":"https:\/\/kadampa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/42151139-1778315734244-11f1d52a024ae.jpg","cover_image_id":"770257","duration":"00:38:02","filesize":"87.1 mb","filesize_raw":"91298880","date_recorded":"2026-05-09 16:00:00","explicit":"","block":"","itunes_episode_number":"38","itunes_title":"","itunes_season_number":"","itunes_episode_type":"full"},"tags":[],"subject":[],"series":[2952],"class_list":["post-770256","podcast","type-podcast","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","series-the-modern-buddhism-podcast-audio","resize-featured-image"],"episode_featured_image":"https:\/\/kadampa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/42151139-1778315734244-11f1d52a024ae.jpg","episode_player_image":"https:\/\/kadampa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/42151139-1778315734244-11f1d52a024ae.jpg","download_link":"https:\/\/kadampa.org\/fr\/podcast-download\/770256\/a-buddhist-monks-honest-advice-on-letting-go-finding-inner-peace","player_link":"https:\/\/kadampa.org\/fr\/podcast-player\/770256\/a-buddhist-monks-honest-advice-on-letting-go-finding-inner-peace","audio_player":null,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"light","subscribeUrls":[],"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/kadampa.org\/fr\/feed\/podcast\/the-modern-buddhism-podcast-audio","embedCode":"A Buddhist Monk’s Honest Advice On Letting Go & Finding Inner Peace<\/a><\/blockquote>